From my friend Lisa, who doesn't think she's funny (whatever, Lisa--would an unfunny person use THIS-- as their avatar on bulletin boards? I don't think so). Anyway, she said:
"You know, I just feel like...if someone's gonna make my life harder, they should at least be someone I love, right?"
Indeed. Don't be mucking up my life or getting in my craw if you're not a loved one. And hey, you loved ones who ARE getting all stuck in my craw? Knock it off!